[no obj.](of a man) readily or frequently enter into casual sexual relationships with women (男人)勾搭女性,拈花惹草 they accepted that their husbands would philander with other women. 她们承认自己丈夫会和其他女性勾勾搭搭。
派生 philanderer noun 语源
mid 18th cent.: from the earlier noun philander 'man, husband', often used in literature as the given name of a lover, from Greek philandros 'fond of men', from philein 'to love' + aner 'man'